I've gotten a cat today, and its a bit wild and stressed, i really dont know how to calm her down, and shes really scared, how do i fix that?
It's quite common for a new kitten to feel stressed and act a bit wild, especially if there's been a recent change like introducing a new pet into the household. Here are some steps you can take to help your new kitten feel more comfortable and calm:
First, it's important to create a safe space for your kitten. Set up a quiet, cozy area where she can retreat and feel secure. This could be a small room or a corner equipped with a bed, some toys, and a litter box.
If you have other pets, introduce them gradually and under supervision. Allow your kitten to get accustomed to the new environment and smells before any direct interaction takes place.
Cats feel more secure when they have places to hide, so providing hiding spots is beneficial. Cardboard boxes, cat tunnels, or even a blanket draped over a chair can serve as good hiding places.
You might also consider using calming products like Feliway, which is a synthetic feline facial pheromone that can help reduce stress. These are available in sprays or diffusers.
Spend time sitting quietly near your kitten, allowing her to approach you on her own terms. Gentle petting and talking softly can help build trust, but avoid forcing interaction.
Engaging her in play with toys like feather wands or laser pointers can help burn off some of that wild energy and create positive associations with you.
Establishing a consistent routine for feeding, playtime, and quiet time can also be very helpful. Cats thrive on routine, and knowing what to expect can significantly reduce stress.
Lastly, patience is key. It may take some time for your kitten to adjust, so give her the space she needs to feel secure.
If you notice that her behavior doesn't improve over time or if she shows signs of illness, it would be wise to consult with a veterinarian to rule out any underlying health issues.
If you have any further questions, please feel free to ask. Thank you.
Her last owner are bit older so they werent being near her or petting her, so becouse shes not really familiar whit humans, i mean shes really scared of any humans, shes even scared of her last owners, they gave her to me becouse they think that i can get better care of her, but im really not sure or better to say i really dont know how to make her not to be scared by humas.
It's completely understandable that your kitten is scared of humans.
Building trust with a fearful kitten takes time and patience, but it's definitely achievable. Please see the previous answer and hopefully the following will help both you and Livi.
Spend time in the same room as her, but don't try to approach her right away. Sit quietly and let her observe you from a distance. This will help her get used to your presence without feeling threatened.
And offer her treats or small amounts of wet food from your hand. If she's too scared to take it from your hand, you can place it nearby and gradually move it closer over time.
Remember, every kitten is different, and some may take longer to adjust than others. The key is to go at her pace and not rush the process.
Thank you so much, i've closed her in one room yeseterday whit food and water, i didnt want to do anything before i ask a professional, thank you so so much, i will go there and try right now, thank uu
Thank you for your kind words!
It sounds like you're doing a wonderful job in helping her feel secure. Providing a quiet space with food and water is an excellent beginning. Just continue to be patient and gentle with her, and over time, she will start to feel more comfortable around you.
I tried but nothing, she hid somwhere in room and she wont come out, shes really scared, i feel like i should leave her alone, should i?
It's okay to let your kitten have some alone time. Hiding is a natural response for a scared kitten, and giving her space can help her feel more secure.
When you talk to her, use a soft, soothing voice. This can help her associate your presence with calm and safety.
Remember, building trust takes time, especially with a kitten who hasn't had much human interaction. It's important to be patient and let her come out on her own terms.
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